#1. It may seem like your world is crumbling, but it's not. Being single is nothing to be ashamed of (as I said in my last post). There is nothing wrong with it and your life is not over if you are. I know you are hurting right now, but if you ex doesn't seem to be hurting as much as you seem to be, then you need to move on. It sounds easier said than done, I know, but you must realize that there are other people in the world. We live in a world full of 7 billion people, believe that there is someone out there for you. Maybe you'll meet them today, maybe tomorrow, maybe decades from now—just believe your world is not crumbling.
#2. Talk about it. You are not alone. You may not feel like you do, but you have friends and family that care for you. You may not care at the moment and only want your ex back, but there other people in your life that would have never put you through the pain they did. Other people in your life that genuinely care about your wellbeing. Talk to someone about how you're feeling, whether it be your mom, aunt, or friend. There are people out there who want to help you and you find them much more comforting than your heartbreaking ex. Sometimes you need to vent to get over some things.
#4. Delete, delete, delete!
#5. Indulge yourself in the finest of things. I'm not saying go out and get chocolate wasted (Hahaha! See what I did there? Cause of that movie... if you don't get it, ignore that sentence) here, mkay? I'm saying take yourself out for a treat. Order a wedding sized fudge cake and just shove your face in it, just do that... But also when I say indulge yourself that doesn't just apply in foods. You could go for a run (Going for a run is proven to help no matter what situation you're in, 100%), you could go on the internet (try staying away from thing such as facebook, myspace, and twitter or anything that symbolizes your ex) but try busying yourself by reading some books online, like wattpad, or going on tumblr (unless your ex is there, then stay away from that too) or going on youtube or vine.
#6. Be the bigger person. That means DO NOT BY ANY MEANS BRING YOURSELF DOWN IN ATTEMPTS OF GETTING BACK AT YOUR EX. That means don't try to make them jealous by dating/flirting with someone else. Not only is it a waste of energy, but you're also toying with someone else's emotions here. Don't try to get them to notice you by doing something you wouldn't usually do. Just don't bring yourself down like that. The best way to get back at your ex is to just live your life and be happy.
"If you love something, set it free; if it returns it's yours; if it doesn't it was never yours to begin with."